Dec 14, 2025

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The Quiet List: No. 01

The Quiet List: No. 01

The Quiet List: No. 01

This week: We are trading gold for silver, retiring the "dewy" look for soft matte, and reclaiming the velvet blazer from the 90s.

The "Silver Lining" Shift, Velvet Blazers, and The End of the "Glazed" Face

Can you believe we are already mid-December? I was looking at my calendar this morning, realizing that 2026 is staring us in the face. It feels like just yesterday we were debating whether "Mob Wife Aesthetic" was real or just an internet joke. (Spoiler: It was a joke).

This holiday season, the mood feels different. After a few years of "maximalism" trying to claw its way back, the end of 2025 has settled into something I’m calling "Structured Softness." We are tired of the noise. We want things that feel substantial, lasting, and (dare I say) a little bit cooler in tone.

Here is what is on our radar this week, filtered through a Quiet Edit lens.

Fashion: The Velvet Renaissance (But Make It Tailored)

If you haven’t bought a velvet piece yet this winter, this is your sign. But unlike the crushed velvet slip dresses of the 90s, the Late 2025 velvet trend is all about tailoring.

We are seeing a massive move toward the Velvet Blazer in unexpected jewel tones—think Sapphire, Deep Emerald, and Midnight Blue rather than the standard Black or Burgundy. It’s the easiest hack for holiday dressing: You wear your favorite jeans and a white tee, throw on a structured velvet blazer, and suddenly you are the best-dressed woman in the room.

Founders Note: I love a new purchase, but I love "shopping my own closet" even more. I pulled this stunning circa-2010 deep plum velvet blazer with a stand-up collar and detailed buttons out of my closet storage (aka one of the boxes on my top shelf), and it is the perfect example of the current "Lady Jacket" trend. This is why I hold onto classic pieces even when they aren't in daily rotation.

  • Why it works: This piece proves that true style is timeless. The structured fit and military-inspired buttons give it a formality that a standard blazer just doesn't have.

  • Style Tip: With a jacket this structured and detailed, keep the layer underneath effortless. A simple black silk camisole or a very fine-gauge black merino turtleneck will let the jacket be the star.

  • The Look: Rich and sculptural. The matte depth of the velvet against the liquid sheen of a satin skirt creates an outfit that feels expensive, thoughtful, and incredibly elegant.

Home Decor: The Return of Silver (Don't Panic)

For the last decade, unlacquered brass and gold have reigned supreme. But if you’ve been watching the design editorials lately, you’ve noticed a cooling trend. Polished Nickel, Chrome, and Silver are back in a big way for 2026.

Now, before you go ripping out your kitchen hardware, breathe. The goal isn't to replace everything; it's to mix.

The Real-Life Edit: We are embracing the "Mixed Metal" table this Christmas.

  • Founder's Note: For my dining table this Christmas I mixed gold and silver ornaments and wove them through cedar garland down the center of the table.

  • Why it works: The gold ties into my chandelier and hardware, while the silver brings that fresh, modern 2026 energy. It feels collected and curated, rather than bought in a single box set.

  • Try This: Don't be afraid to mix finishes. A matte gold ornament next to a high-shine silver one creates a depth that feels incredibly luxe.

Beauty: "Cloud Skin" (Goodbye, Glazed Donut)

We have officially reached peak "dewy." For a while there, we were all walking around looking slightly wet. The pendulum has swung, and for Winter 2025, the finish is "Cloud Skin" or "Soft Matte."

For those of us over 40, this is tricky. Old-school matte powders settle into lines. The new "Soft Matte" is about blurring, not drying.

The Real-Life Edit: We are trading high-shine highlighters for blurring balms.

  • The Technique: Focus your glow only on the very high points of the face (tops of cheekbones). Keep the "T-Zone" (forehead, nose, chin) velvety soft.

  • Recommendation: Look for "setting balms" or "powder-cream hybrids." They take down the shine without stripping the life out of your skin. It looks like you are viewed through a soft-focus lens, rather than a ring light.

Fragrance: The "Cold Air" Note

Usually, winter scents are all cinnamon and spice. But the most interesting fragrance trend right now is "The Cold."

Perfumers are using notes like Juniper Berry, Gin, Mint, and Iris to mimic the smell of crisp, snowy air. It’s refreshing, sharp, and incredibly chic. It cuts through the heaviness of winter food and wool sweaters.

The Real-Life Edit: If you find standard winter perfumes too heavy or headache-inducing, a "Cold" scent is your answer. It acts like a palate cleanser for your nose.

Founder's Note: I have personally committed to Kilian Roses on Ice this season. It was a bit of a splurge (even on sale), but it is the most incredible interpretation of this trend. It smells exactly like a gin and tonic served on ice with a slice of cucumber—sharp, aquatic, and completely devoid of sugar. It makes me feel instantly pulled together, even if I'm just wearing a cashmere sweater and jeans.

Other "Cold" Scents to Try:

  • The "Gin & Tonic" Chic: Maison Francis Kurkdjian Gentle Fluidity Silver. This is the gold standard for the trend. It opens with an ultra-fresh blast of Juniper berries that smells exactly like a cold gin cocktail on a silver tray. It is crisp, metallic, and deeply sophisticated.

  • The "Frozen Floral": Frederic Malle L'Eau d'Hiver. The name literally translates to "Winter Water." It blends white heliotrope and iris to create a scent that feels soft, clean, and quiet—like snow falling on a silent street.

  • The "Parisian Night": Diptyque Orphéon. While it warms up on the skin, the opening is a blast of Juniper and Jasmine that feels clean and powdery. It smells like a cold walk home after a night out in a jazz club.

A Parting Thought

The holidays are loud enough. Your wardrobe and your home don't have to scream to be heard. Whether you are mixing metals or just mixing a drink this week, remember that true luxury is usually found in the pause.

Here is to a week of less noise and more intention.

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